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Allyssa Capri's avatar

I was watching Luther's documentary the other day and thinking about how voices like his, and Roberta's, and Frankie's, and so many more will just never exist again. Classic R&B is something sacred to our culture, it really was the soundtrack to so many childhoods, even those who weren't alive when the music was made. I have a kid now and I feel like he won't have this same kind of soulful connection to R&B like I did growing up, and that's kinda sad!

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myris o.'s avatar

I'm sorry my girl.

This is how I felt when Aretha Franklin passed away. Her Greatest Hits Album stayed on repeat in our house. I can remember my mum's first apartment after she moved out of my nana's house. It was 2 floors and she had a room in which she did hair and it was RED! LOL and I begged her to let me paint my room red, and she refused (which, good call, but devastating at the time). Anyway...

I specifically recall every song off that album and believing that I, in fact, sounded as good as Ms. Franklin and that's the kind of confidence you need as a child. I even sung "RESPECT" to audition for a school play in grade 7... LOL again... the confidence.

But ya, it really does do something to you. All of a sudden this person who was integral in creating who and how you are today is not there anymore. You'll not have the chance to meet them at a random restaurant or see/hear them in concert... it's a crazy thing.

I hope you take some time for yourself, frfr... take a bath if you can; cry into the water -- it helps.

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